A friend of mine recently died, and as I found the sadness lingering, I turned to my deck and asked this question, then drew 3 cards randomly and let them answer”
What would Karen want me to knowĀ OR what would she say to me right now in my grief?
Grandma and Grandpa Anderson
Community Suit
We are the ones whose love created your mother, Ruth.
We are the ones who are your ancestors watching over you. We are the ones who are part of your Bright Ones.
We are the ones whose love is still holding you within Indraās Net.
What Karen wants you to know right now, today, is that she is also held within the Net
of her own ancestorsā love and care.
She wants you to know that love never ends, that love doesnāt die once our bodies die.
I am the one who sits still in the silence and lets my heart open wide in blossom.
I am the one who prays, who holds space for all the parts of myself. I am the one who listens within.
I am the one who practices radical acceptance of every thought and feeling that passes through me.
I am the one who remembers that all thoughts and feelings DO pass though me!
What Karen wants you to know is that you can remain peaceful and connected with yourself,
in spite of your grief and sadness.
She wants you to know that just as meditation is a practice, so is grief a practice.

This Side of Death
Council Suit
I am the one who is on THIS side of the Great White Curtain that separates the Living from the Dead.
I am the one who is immobile and dried out and stuck here in the Not Knowing.
I am the one who is afraid for the Great White Curtain to be lifted
AND I am the one who is curious about what is on the other side of it.
I am the one who knows that my time will come and all will be revealed.
What Karen wants you to know right now is that there is nothing to fear,
that there is only Love, Great Love, on the other side of the Great White Curtain.
She wants you to know that all is well.Ā All is well, on both sides of the Curtain that divides the living from the ādead.ā
If you would find it helpful, you might bring to mind a loved one who has died, and ask the same question of your deck, then draw 3 cards randomly (no peeking!) and listen to what each one has to say to you. Notice how you feel before such a reading, and after.