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Soul Songs
 
 Your SoulCollage Newsletter

Enabling us to sing the songs
we were born to sing
through the practice
of SoulCollage®



Issue #32       February, 2008
                                                                Theme: Our Inner Shadow Parts

Welcome!

Greetings, and welcome to Soul Songs, the official KaleidoSoul Newsletter, and the only monthly newsletter that focuses exclusively on SoulCollage ideas, resources and artists.

Our intention is to fill each issue (and your life) with inspiration, soul-solace and delight.  Whether you are new to SoulCollage, or already immersed in the creation of your deck, Soul Songs is for you. 

Please feel free to forward this newsletter to any friends, colleagues, or family members who will enjoy it.

View this newsletter as a web page with complete color and graphics.
 

Soul Singing with Anne Marie

Hi!  I'm Anne Marie, the creator of KaleidoSoul.com, and a SoulCollage®  facilitator in Massachusetts.  If you're just starting to sing your song with SoulCollage, this column is especially for you.


Suggestions for newcomers to SoulCollage:
 
  • Find a SoulCollage Facilitator near you.

  • Download the Getting Started with SoulCollage
    Workshop in a Box
    .

  • Visit KaleidoSoul and click on What is SoulCollage, SoulCollage Deck, and Making the Cards on the left menu.

  • Seena Frost is the one who created SoulCollage®. Visit Seena's website and see what four cards come up for you in the automatic reading, then read some of Seena's articles.

  • Read Seena's book, SoulCollage.
  •  
  • Listen to Seena's CD, Introduction to SoulCollage.
  •  
  • Don't forget to take it easy and always, always trust the process!


    Negative Nancy

    The very first inner shadow part I worked with was Negative Nancy (see last card in column to right).  Her voice came up in some therapy sessions a few years ago, and I wanted to create a card to honor her.

    I created the card intentionally, but even so, I was amazed at how much I learned from it after I'd made it.  And just the process of gathering images to express this shadowy part of myself was a learning experience for me.

    However, the biggest lesson for me came when I showed the card to my therapist, and she led me through an inner dialog with this inner voice.  I could really feel all of Negative Nancy's pessimistic energy in my body. I could actually hear everything she'd ever told me about myself, about my life, my choices, my ideas. 

    And I realized that it wasn't me.

    Our darker, shadowy parts are parts of us that we have often disowned, parts that we are not too proud of.  But that's just it. They are only parts of us.

    So in your work with your darker voices, remember that there are many other parts of you that shine like the sun.  And remember that each one (each and every one) brings gifts to your inner and outer worlds.



    Anne Marie Bennett is a freelance writer, self- taught artist and SoulCollage® facilitator who trained with Seena Frost. Her background is elementary education, computer software training, writing, and mixed media art. She lives, laughs, writes, and sings (and makes her own SoulCollage® cards!) in Beverly, MA. More of Anne Marie's cards/interpretations are available on her blog, Inner Surprises.

    Please read more about 
    upcoming workshops/retreats with Anne Marie.


Soul Symphonies with Karen
My name is Karen Mann and I'm a SoulCollage® facilitator from Melbourne, Australia. This column is for those of you who have already made some cards & are ready to discover the symphony of voices inside of you and around you. 

 

Our Shadowed Neters
Need a Support Team
 


When dealing with a shadowed Neter, Seena Frost, author of the SoulCollage book, explains that "Each voice has a history...and at some level, each truly wants to assist you. The styles they use may be counterproductive for your present life, but after you have recognized them you can study these negative styles & enlist some other committee members to help modify them."   

Our aim is not to 'fix' or 'vanquish' a shadowed aspect, rather it is to acknowledge this aspect of self and get to know it, understanding where this aspect came from and how it is trying to help you. 

It is important to be aware that the methods engaged by a Neter did help you to survive at some stage in your life, but now those methods are no longer useful.  For example, if as a child your dad sent you to your room when you made too much noise, you may have learnt to be very quiet all of the time so as to not anger him.  As an adult however, being too quiet may mean you are missing out on lots of opportunities like job promotions, meeting a life partner... etc. 

By building up a support team of helpful Neters, a shadowed aspect can be nurtured and assisted, as opposed to repaired or banished.  
An example of one of my shadowed cards is called "I will do anything to be loved".  (I chose this card partly because it contains the tin woodman from the Wizard of Oz as a contribution to the discussions on the KaleidoSoul Yahoo Group about fairytales and myth).  

This Neter says to me: I am the one who will do anything to be loved.  I never can trust that I will be loved just for who I am.  I don't feel good enough to be loved just as myself.  I will hide my true self in dark corners if this means you can't see my faults and therefore you'll love me.  I'll chop off a part of my body if this means you'll care for me (apparently the tin woodman became tin after a wicked witch cursed his axe so it kept chopping off parts of his body and then got them replaced by tin replicas).  I will be as perfect as possible, because that way you MUST love me.

This shadowed Neter of mine shows a deficit in feeling as though it deserves to be loved exactly for who it is. Its unhealthful tendancies are to do things in order to attract love, rather than to be true to myself. 

Seena Frost suggests that we recruit some other Committee members to assist and modify (but not obliterate) a shadowed Neter.  
Some of my other Neters that help me regulate and care for this Neter include:

1. "The One Who is Enough," who asserts that I am good enough just as I am.

2. My heart chakra Companion "Butterfly," who reminds me that I don't have to be perfect in order to be worthy of being loved.
3. "Ability to Shine," who assures me that a lot of times I can and do shine my light brightly and let everyone see how fabulous I truly am.
4. "Fearless," who reminds me that I am the one who is not scared about being alone.
5. "Self Nurturing," who says helps me to care for and nurtures myself.

6. "Self Protection," who helps by being "the one who lets you know when it is truly safe to be your authentic self"

Now that I am aware of what a big issue it is for me to be scared about not being good/deserving enough, I am working to support, care for and slowly modify this shadowed Neter.  Now when I begin to feel desperate for love, my heart chakra companion reminds me I can be loved just as I am... etc.

As you come across some of your own shadowy Neters, remember not to focus so much on 'fixing' a 'broken' Neter, but instead, begin searching though your other Neters for a support team who can assist you to slowly modify your reactions, thought patterns and behaviours.

Karen Mann is an artist, art teacher, Lifestyle Coach, yoga and meditation teacher, and SoulCollage® facilitator. Karen has been working with SoulCollage cards for more than two years and facilitates a variety of SoulCollage Groups. She also works with individuals. Karen is based in Melbourne, Australia. For more information, or to contact Karen, please visit her website, Flying Colours Creativity.


 

 



Kaleido-Deal
of the Month

February, 2008


Join KaleidoSoul Kindred Spirits this month, and you'll receive a fr*ee 79 page e-book called Inner Journeys, written by our own Anne Marie Bennett.  All Kindred Spirit Members will receive this very special e-book on February 25 in celebration of the 100th issue of Soul Treasures, our Members Only weekly newsletter.

Find out how to become a KaleidoSoul Kindred Spirit Member on this KaleidoSoul page.





SoulCollage® is a trademarked process created by Seena B. Frost.  For more information about Seena and the origins of SoulCollage,
please visit her website.

SoulCollage® cards are made either from one's own art or from images found in materials which have been bought by or given to the SoulCollage card maker. These collaged cards are used only for the cardmaker's own inner exploration. SoulCollage cards are not sold, traded, bartered, or copied (except as a back-up for the cardmakers own use) as is stated in the "Principles of SoulCollage®." Where SoulCollage cards are available to be seen by others, it is for the purposes either of demonstrating the SoulCollage process or of sharing the cardmakers' inner process in the context of community. SoulCollage® is grateful to the artists and photographers who make this deep awakening process possible and in all ways SoulCollage®seeks to be respectful of their rights.

 
All articles in SOUL SONGS are copyrighted, 2008, 
by Anne Marie Bennett and Karen Mann.
Articles may be reprinted by permission only.
 

  KaleidoSoul Creations
As promised, we are featuring four SoulCollage® cards from our readers in each issue. 

In keeping with this month's theme, each card below represents one SoulCollager's expression of the Inner Shadow.

 
 
Darkness/My Shadow Side
Artist: Edith

Location: Ireland

Sorry,
I am the one who statements
not available at
publication time.




 
Celebrating
the Shadow Self
Artist: Michele,
The New Moon Journal
Location: Florida

 

 

I am the One
who celebrates
The Shadow,
Warts and all.
A comedy that looks
Like a drama...
I embrace
the art
of transformation
Grounded in this knowing.
I laugh at
the muddlings
and fuddlings
Of my egoic self.




 
Monsters
Artist: Laura
Location: Oregon
 

 

We are the ones who dwell just below the surface, in the shadows.

We are the ones who haunt you and scare you, visiting
your dreams and subconscious.

You're afraid we'll hurt you. You're afraid we'll surprise you and scare you.
You're most afraid
that you are one of us.





Negative Nancy
Suit: Committee
Artist: Anne Marie
Location: Massachusetts

I am the one who says "No, you can't do this. No, you'd better not do that. 
No, no no."
I am the one who holds my arms out to block your passageway to new growth.


Please feel free to submit one of your cards for a future issue by sending
a reply email to this newsletter.
Future themes include: Inner Child, Abundance, Humor, Loving Our Bodies.





 

KaleidoSoul Notes

Noteworthy resources for anyone interested in SoulCollage

 
SoulCollage website- Seena Frost created the process of SoulCollage, and this is her website.
 
KaleidoSoul- Spinning the fragments of your world into wholeness and beauty through SoulCollage.


Kindred Spirits-
Join our fast-growing worldwide membership of people who put the "soul" in SoulCollage! Receive a weekly newsletter all about SoulCollage, advance notice of new SoulCollage materials, half- price discounts on all e-courses and e-books in the KaleidoSoul Shop. And more!


Tele-Classes-
These are fun, interactive tele-classes that are easily accessed from anywhere in the world.  February's tele-class is all about Embracing the Mystery of The Shadow, with special guest present Karen Mann (see her column to the left).  There are more details on this KaleidoSoul page.


SoulCollage Weekend Retreats:
Imagine creating SoulCollage cards to your heart's content for hours and hours at a time, and in your pajamas if you want to!  Wouldn't it be wonderful to connect with other SoulCollagers from all over the country?  And don't you deserve a special weekend of creativity and fun?  Our annual spring retreat is being held in Essex, MA this year from April 10-13, 2008. Why not join us for three wonderful nights of sharing, stories, and SoulCollage? You'll be glad you did.   More info on this KaleidoSoul page.



Facilitator Trainings:
Information about content and dates/locations of upcoming trainings of SoulCollage Facilitators. Current locations are: California, New Mexico, and Massachusetts.

And... the first ever Australian SoulCollage Facilitator Training will be held in Byron Bay May 30- June 1. For more information about this training or to express interest in a future Facilitator's Training in Australia, please contact Karen Mann.